[16 Years of Marriage Hunting] My Story of Getting Married at 52 in Japan, a Country of Girl Worship and Misogynistic Pride
2025-12-12 | TOSHI

Please read this memoir I wrote. It’s in Japanese, though.
[16 Years of Marriage Hunting] My Story of Getting Married at 52 in Japan, a Country of Girl Worship and Misogynistic Pride
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【16年婚活】少女崇拝・女性蔑視の国、日本で52歳の私が結婚するまでの話
https://note.com/toshijprose/n/nca96c6b7194d
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Japan is a country where young or little girls are worshipped and older women are looked down upon.
I started looking for a partner in my late 30s, but perhaps because I distrusted men and wanted to marry someone my own age, I endured horrible treatment at every turn for 16 years. I finally married a man my own age when I was 52. I never knew when or who would discriminate against me.
I was falsely accused and kicked out of a store, suddenly stalked by a man in his 70s, which led to police involvement, I stayed in Germany for a while and noticed that people dated others within the same generation… This is the story of how I discovered the true misogyny lurking in everyday life.
A “rare” marriage at 52, but still having nightmares despite finding happiness.
Let me start by saying I’m not trying to badmouth men. I just want to be free from nightmares.
Even though I’m supposed to be happy, I still suffer from recurring bad dreams when I sleep.
(Continued, Japanese, Free)
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[16 Years of Marriage Hunting] My Story of Getting Married at 52 in Japan, a Country of Girl Worship and Misogynistic Pride
【16年婚活】少女崇拝・女性蔑視の国、日本で52歳の私が結婚するまでの話
https://note.com/toshijprose/n/nca96c6b7194d
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※TOSHI, I had been a writer who mainly focuses on food for around 5 years. I am looking for media that will publish my essays about Japan, gourmet Mystery novel (※), etc. Feel free to contact me via ClubRosy’s X (Twitter) DM. https://twitter.com/ClubRosy
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amazon page of TOSHI’s book(竹井夙 Toshi TAKEI’s book)⇩⇩ [美しい人々 Beautiful people] etc.
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As for our daily life, I, or “Rosie-chan,” tweet on Twitter at Club Rosie, almost everyday. so please take a look if you like. It seems that it may be possible to translate with Google.
Club Rosy Twitter
https://twitter.com/ClubRosy
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https://clubrosy.jp/article/3665.html
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https://clubrosy.jp/topimg/3565.html
The articles I wrote
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